In this insightful conversation, we are joined by Laura Gates-Lupton, a financial feminist and money coach who has made it her mission to help women at midlife take control of their financial destinies. Laura’s approach is both practical and deeply personal, addressing the emotional and psychological barriers that often stand in the way of financial success. Through her work, Laura encourages women to recognize their worth, challenge societal norms, and embrace a new sense of empowerment. Join us as we explore the transformative power of self-reflection, the importance of financial literacy, and the path to true wealth—one that extends far beyond monetary value.
The Dual Approach to Money Coaching: Inner Work and Practical Application
This approach to money coaching involves addressing both the emotional and practical aspects of financial management. It acknowledges that focusing on increasing income often brings up limiting beliefs and unresolved financial issues. By working through these emotional barriers while developing practical skills, individuals not only improve their ability to earn more but also cultivate a healthier relationship with money. This holistic strategy emphasizes that financial well-being is as much about healing past traumas as it is about acquiring new financial knowledge and skills.
The Transformative Power of Self-Reflection in Financial Growth
Laura Gates-Lupton’s method of coaching women to ask for raises by having them list all their contributions to the workplace, both tangible and intangible, is a testament to the power of self-reflection. This practice encourages women to recognize and acknowledge their worth, which is often overlooked or undervalued. By documenting their skills and achievements, women can confront limiting beliefs and embody a new sense of empowerment. This exercise is not just about the monetary value of their contributions but also about the intrinsic value they bring to their roles, which is a critical step in financial growth and self-worth.
The Concept of True Wealth Beyond Monetary Value
True wealth goes far beyond just financial gains. It’s about understanding that wealth is multi-dimensional, encompassing aspects like flexibility, joy in your work, and the positive impact you have on others. This perspective challenges conventional views of success, encouraging individuals to define wealth in their own terms. It’s a powerful reminder that financial planning isn’t solely about numbers, but also about creating a life that’s meaningful and fulfilling in all areas.
The Organic Evolution of “Women Uncaged” Podcast
The “Women Uncaged” podcast, a creation of Laura Gates-Lupton and Linda Katz, emerged organically from their deep, unfiltered discussions about issues facing women. This evolution from casual conversations to a structured podcast format underscores the power of authenticity and vulnerability in communication. The podcast’s success lies in its unplanned, genuine approach, where topics are spontaneously chosen and discussions flow without editing or filtering. This organic evolution highlights the importance of genuine connection and the impact of sharing unedited thoughts and experiences. It serves as a reminder that the most impactful conversations often arise from a place of openness and a willingness to explore without a predefined agenda.
Overcoming Guilt and Embracing Abundance
Laura addresses the common feeling of guilt among women who are financially better off than others. She challenges the notion that having financial abundance somehow hurts those who have less. Instead, she invites women to embrace what they have and still serve others. This shift in perspective is crucial for women to overcome the paralysis of guilt and to use their financial resources to make a positive impact.
Resources
Laura Gates-Lupton
Good With Money Substack
Woman Uncaged Podcast
Sistermind Roundtable
Laura’s LinkedIn